When planning your wedding, one of the biggest decisions you’ll make is who to invite—and whether or not that includes children. While some couples dream of a family-friendly celebration where little ones are welcome, others prefer an adult-only event. If you’re struggling to decide whether an adult-only wedding is the right choice for you, we’re here to help!
The Benefits
Choosing an adult-only wedding allows you to create a more upscale and relaxed atmosphere. Without the worry of unpredictable outbursts during your vows, you can enjoy a ceremony that feels uninterrupted and focused on you and your partner. An adult-only reception also tends to have a different energy, where all your guests can engage in the celebration without having to deal with little ones needing to be watched or leaving early for bedtime routines. This can be especially appealing if you’re envisioning an evening of lively dancing, signature cocktails, and an elegant sit-down dinner.
The Considerations
While an adult-only wedding has its perks, there are some challenges to consider. Some guests, especially those traveling from out of town, may struggle to find childcare. This could result in certain family members or friends being unable to attend. If you have close relatives with young children, it’s worth having an honest conversation about your decision to ensure they feel included in other ways, such as a family brunch before or after the wedding. Another factor is how you communicate the policy to your guests. Make sure to clearly indicate on your invitations and wedding website that your event is for adults only. A polite note such as, “While we love your little ones, we have decided to make our wedding an adult-only affair” will help set the expectation from the start.
Alternatives To Consider
If you love the idea of an elegant, kid-free evening but don’t want to completely exclude families, there are some creative alternatives to consider. One option is to have a child-friendly ceremony followed by an adult-only reception. This way, parents can bring their kids for the vows and then arrange childcare for the rest of the evening. Another solution is to provide on-site childcare, allowing parents to enjoy the celebration while knowing their children are safely entertained nearby. Some couples hire professional babysitters to set up a fun “kids’ zone” at a nearby hotel or designated space.
Host Your Perfect Wedding At The Park Savoy Estate
Whether you decide to have an adult-only wedding or welcome little ones to the celebration, The Park Savoy Estate is the perfect venue to bring your vision to life. With stunning ceremony spaces, a grand ballroom, and an expert team to assist with planning, your wedding will be seamless from start to finish. Plus, our preferred vendors make it easy to find the best professionals to support your wedding day needs. Contact us today to schedule a tour and start planning your dream celebration!
