One of the most exciting parts of wedding planning is choosing the special people who will stand by your side on your big day. Whether it’s friends, siblings, cousins, or even parents, asking your loved ones to be part of your wedding party is a meaningful moment. From heartfelt gestures to creative surprises, there are so many ways to make this ask as special as the role they’ll play in your wedding. Keep reading for a guide to asking your loved ones to stand by your side!
Make It Personal
The best way to ask is to make it personal. Whether it’s a best friend who has been by your side through thick and thin, a sibling who has always supported you, or a cousin you’ve shared countless childhood memories with, make your ask unique. Consider writing a heartfelt note or card expressing why you want them to participate. Highlight the qualities you admire about them, the special moments you’ve shared, and how much their presence would mean to you on your wedding day. A personal touch goes a long way!
Create A Thoughtful Gift
If you want to make the moment even more memorable, consider giving a thoughtful gift when you ask. This could be something simple yet meaningful, like a personalized piece of jewelry, a custom engraved flask, or a small photo book filled with memories of your time together. For a fun twist, you could give them a gift box with items that hint at their role in the wedding, such as a mini champagne bottle, wedding day socks, or a personalized hanger for their attire. Remember—the gesture doesn’t have to be extravagant. What matters is that it reflects your appreciation and thoughtfulness!
Be Clear About Expectations
While the focus of the ask should be on celebrating your relationship, it’s also important to communicate any expectations you have for your wedding party. Let them know what being in the wedding entails, whether it’s helping with planning, attending pre-wedding events, or simply standing by your side. Being upfront about your hopes and needs ensures that they feel prepared and excited to take on the role.
Celebrate Their Yes
Once your loved ones say yes, make it a moment to celebrate! Share your excitement and let them know how much their support means to you. This is just the beginning of the journey, and their involvement will make the process even more special. Whether it’s brainstorming ideas, planning pre-wedding events, or simply being there to share in the joy, your wedding party will be a big part of your special day.
Celebrate At The Park Savoy Estate
At The Park Savoy Estate, we know that your wedding is about more than just about you—it’s about the people who love and support you along the way too! Our venue provides the perfect setting to celebrate your journey with your loved ones, from engagement parties and bridal showers to the wedding day itself. Contact us today to schedule a tour and learn more about how The Park Savoy Estate can make your celebration unforgettable.
