You’ve been chosen to be the Best Man. The tuxedos are in place, the bachelor party is a-go, and you’ll traverse the Sahara Desert with no water before you’d arrive late at the rehearsal dinner. For all intents and purposes everything is in the bag, right? Well sure, it could be, but there are things to consider for your best friend’s big day. A poise and mindset that will raise you above the simple rank-and-file of Best Men.
- You are The Chief Liaison
The Groom is going to be busy with photoshoots, Videographer interviews and in short, preparing for the biggest day of his life. You are his eyes and ears for the entire ceremony. Chances are you and the Maid of Honor will be exchanging status updates on your respective charges. If Someone needs The Groom, you will be the first person they look for. The President has the Press Secretary, and the Groom has you.
- Knowingly or Not, The Groomsmen Will Follow Your Example
How you conduct yourself will influence the rest of The Groom’s entourage. Is your boutonnière or bowtie ajar? Are you being too casual and letting the event pass you by? Energy is infectious. Like any tone at the top, if the Groomsmen don’t see you pitching in, they’ll think they don’t have to either.
- Don’t Neglect Your Other Responsibilities
Depending on the wedding, you may be expected to collect the gift envelopes brought to the reception and transport the gifts afterward (usually the couples’ home), decorate the getaway car, and drive the couple to their destination after the reception.
- Despite All This, Don’t Hold it All on Your Shoulders
Okay, so now that you may or may not be having a panic attack, you should know that it all doesn’t have to fall on you. Don’t be afraid to ask the fellow Groomsmen, the Bridesmaids and even the couples’ families for assistance. The end of the Nuptials and after the cutting of the cake are optimal times to get a breather and center yourself. Even though being the Best Man is a privilege with many responsibilities, a wedding is still a day of celebration. Enjoy yourself.
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